Wedding Feature: Wei and Henry Tie the Knot
At Hampshire House, we believe every couple’s love story is unique and should be celebrated in a way that fits your relationship. In February, we were proud to be a part of the wedding of Cami (Wei) Chen and Henry Byrd.
Prior to the ceremony, the beautiful bride Cami got ready for her big day, enjoying a bit of pampering and a cup of tea before the festivities began. Once she and her groom Henry were ready, they met for a private reveal captured only by the photographer, Maureen Cotton.
The ceremony took place in The Library, an inviting room complete with a grand chandelier, rustic shelves lined with books and various ephemera, a grand piano and drapes and carpeting to complete the warm feel of the venue. The couple exchanged their vows before their closest friends and family, having them partake in the ceremony for a personalized touch and intimate feel perfectly suited to the room.
Guests enjoyed a cocktail hour in our Baker Bar while we reconfigured The Library for the reception. While all of this was going on, the couple took the opportunity to explore Hampshire House to find romantic, picturesque backdrops for their first photos as husband and wife.
Returning for the reception in The Library, the newlyweds and their guests were welcomed by a long table covered in a lace tablecloth, golden rail chairs, full place settings and delicate floral centerpieces. It was a lovely gathering well suited to the couple’s style.
Get off to a Smart Start: 5 Wedding Ideas Every Couple Should Use
Wedding planning: notoriously stressful and time-consuming. This is supposed to be one of the happiest days of your life, but getting there can be quite the journey. We can’t promise smooth sailing, but here are a few tips to help make your life a bit easier.
- Create a wedding checklist.
A checklist will help you stay organized and keep track of important deadlines. Plus, the satisfaction of checking something off is totally worth it.
- Plan out your budget.
We can’t stress enough the importance of creating — and sticking to — your budget. Items on your list can add up quickly, so make sure you’re prepared with a realistic, itemized amount you plan to spend.
- Set your guest list.
Start out by listing the absolute most essential people you want to be there. For those couples with a “The more, the merrier” attitude, think of this as a way to maximize your budget by giving each guest a higher quality experience.
- Post a wedding website.
Build the anticipation and excitement both for yourself and your guests. Use your wedding website to post details, teasers and a countdown.
- Put together an inspiration board.
As much as we like to think we have everything stored away in our minds, the sheer amount of planning that goes into a wedding can overload your brain. Take the time to organize your vision by creating an inspiration board either online or craft one to carry around with you.
Four Handed Illusions – May 1, 2016
This Sunday, May 1, Hampshire House is proud to host Four Handed Illusions, an intimate evening of laughs and wonder with two of the area’s most incredible magicians. Guests will watch as magicians Joel Acevedo and Steve Kradolfer team up to put on a truly memorable show that is certain to leave the audience in awe.
Four Handed Illusions
During “Four Handed Illusions,” the intimate audience of just 50 guests will get an up close and personal look at on-stage magic just a few feet away. Tricks range from the engaging, to the funny, and even some that are quite mystifying. All the while, Hampshire House’s elegant sophistication will create a memorable backdrop for the event.
Cocktail attire is suggested for all guests at Four Handed Illusions. There will be a full cash bar available before and during the show. Tickets can be purchased via the Hampshire House website.
For more information visit the Four Handed Illusions Website
Two show times are available for guests: 3 p.m. and 6 p.m., both on Sunday, May 1, 2016.
Bridal Hairstyle and Accessory Trends
Once you’ve found the perfect wedding gown, it feels like your look is complete. But don’t forget the full bridal look is all about the details. The right hairstyle, makeup and accessories tie everything together. When thinking about your hair for your upcoming nuptials, choose a style that flows with your dress, your venue and your personal style.
One of the biggest mistakes brides make is that they get too far away from their authentic style. Of course you want to look your best on your wedding day, but you also want to look like yourself. If you usually wear your hair down, keep it down. If you usually wear it on the top of your head or closer to the base of your neck, this is not the time to change it up.
The latest trends in bridal hairstyles help you show off your fundamental style with a fresh twist. Try these details to take your look up a notch.
Flowers and floral details are always a classic look for brides. Create a floral crown for a rustic look, or don a bold, vibrantly colored flower for a Spanish influence. Flowers like baby’s breath give a soft accent or add color and greenery, complementing any of the other hairstyle trends going on this year.
Braids have been popular the past few years and don’t appear to be going anywhere anytime soon. Fishtail braids, braided buns and loose plaits are among the most popular. Use small braids to tie back hair or big ones as the foundation of your look.
The more natural-looking, slightly undone hairstyle is making a big show this year. Looser styles add extra texture to your look and prevent you from looking too formal or overly done up. Have your stylist create a look that is beautifully messy.
Soft Waves & Single Bends
Soft waves and loose curls are another trend that is sticking around. Soften your look with natural-looking waves. Sweep them up into an up-do, put up only half of your hair, or leave it all down. This style flatters any face for a feminine, ethereal look. The half wave or single bend is also gaining popularity. Instead of a wave throughout the hair, brides are choosing a semi-straight style with a single bend for a more bohemian look.
Low or Side Chignon
Buns, knots, wrapped braids and coils. These styles are dominating the competition. Wear your hair to one side or leave it looser at the nape of your neck.
Add some sparkle to your hairstyle using headbands, barrettes or crowns with metallic or jewels. These details elevate your look and are especially shown off on brides who prefer not to wear a veil. Bronze and gold are big this season, so feel free to accessorize on your wedding day.
Whichever trend you’re looking to try, look around for inspiration. Bring your stylist some ideas that will complement your full bridal look, and be sure to schedule a practice appointment for the best results. Mix a few trends or favor one that lets your beautiful hair shine through on your big day.
The Truth Behind Popular Wedding Traditions
Couples come in all shapes and sizes with a variety of backgrounds, cultures and traditions. Some couples believe a wedding is nothing without its traditions, while many others feel that rules are made to be broken. Whichever side you find yourself on, take a step back and think about why you are following these common traditions and how some creative alternatives might suit you better as a couple.
- It’s bad luck to see the bride before the ceremony. With this tradition, the groom sees the bride at the same time as everyone else. Many couples, however, are opting to see each other in a private reveal. You have both worked hard on your relationship and on your special day, so this pre-ceremony meet-up is your opportunity to take a good look at each other before the mayhem begins.
- Weddings are a formal affair. From the programs, to the music, the vows and the venue, many couples stress about getting all the details perfectly right. We’re here to encourage you not to take things too seriously. Maybe a religious institution is the perfect place to exchange your vows, or maybe a funny yet heartfelt speech in a rustic barn is more your style. Plan for details that fit you as a couple, not the tradition.
- The bride’s father should escort her down the aisle. Not only does your escort not have to be your father, but it’s also becoming more common for brides to walk down the aisle solo. Maybe you were closer with your mother or an uncle is the leading man in your life. Maybe you don’t have anyone you feel comfortable asking, or maybe you’d like to be the main focus. This is your day, so make it the way you want it.
- Bridesmaids are females, and groomsmen are males. If you have six close females in your life, and your groom has six close males in his, then go for it. Have an even number of men and women standing on each side. But many couples have siblings, best friends, family members, etc. that may not fit this tradition. Have those who are most important stand with you, no matter whether they are male or female.
- Engagement rings should be a diamond. Diamond engagement rings are a relatively new convention. If diamonds are your favorite gems, then by all means look for that style. But if not, don’t be afraid to look at other gems that catch your eye. There are plenty of beautiful alternatives to diamonds out there, including sapphire, emerald, opal, morganite and more.
- The bride and groom should have matching wedding bands. While we’re on the topic of rings, it is also becoming more common not to have matching wedding bands. This break from tradition allows both the bride and groom to express their individuality, which undoubtedly attracted you to each other in the first place.
- The bride wears all white. With so many beautiful colors and prints, why opt for white? Bridal fashion — like all good fashion — is pushing the boundaries on what is expected. Your dress should reflect your personality, so be fearless in blush, black, prints or any other look attire that expresses your style.
- Save the top tier of your cake for your first anniversary. Think about it. You would be eating year-old food. Even though it’s frozen, we don’t find that idea particularly appetizing. Instead, serve the fresh cake to your guests and take a photo of your top tier. Have your original cake baker recreate a new top for your first year celebration.
- Toss the bouquet and garter. Instead of throwing things at your single friends, think about using that opportunity to recognize the couple that has been married the longest or the couple that most inspired you to get married.
What it all comes down to is deciding what is right for the two of you. Your friends and family have — and usually share — their own opinions, but only you and your groom know which traditions fit for you and which ones don’t. Feel free to mix and match the ones you want to follow and the ones you’d rather leave behind. More and more couples are learning to make their own new traditions, touches and moments that make their wedding unique and customized to reflect the type of relationship they have. So feel inspired to step out of the box a bit and get creative!
10 Fun Guest Book Ideas
The idea of a guestbook may seem rather traditional, but many couples are using their creativity to make sure messages for their marital bliss stick around. Couples are choosing works of art, memorabilia and objects with more meaning as a way to commemorate all of those who were there when they said “I do.” Here are some clever ideas on how to have some fun with your guestbook:
- A Map: Frame a map to have guests sign with a Sharpie. This idea is especially good for couples who have guests attending from all over the world.
- Fingerprints: Have your guests leave their mark. Make a family tree that blends the groom’s side with the bride’s side. Create flowers, balloons or fill in other shapes that are significant to your region, your family or an activity you love as a couple.
- Quilt: Cut up fabric squares for your guests to write messages or marital advice. When it’s finished, you’ll have a wedding quilt that brings everyone together.
- iPad Videos: Use technology to your advantage. Have guests leave their message in video form.
- Puzzle Pieces: Set out a full set of puzzle pieces. Once your guests are done signing them, put it together and have it framed for your home.
- Time Capsule: Guests can leave messages for you in any vessel of your choosing. Wait for your first anniversary to open it and read them.
- Photo Matte: Have guests sign the matting. You can use the matte when you frame one of your favorite wedding photos.
- Wine Bottle: Set out a bottle (or more, depending on how many guests you have) and a metallic sharpie. Save the wine for your first anniversary when you can review the messages.
- Old Window: This idea is ideal for those rustic, vintage style weddings. Have guests sign the panes and hang it in your home.
- Vinyl Record: Have guests sign a vinyl album, a set of skis or any other object that represents your vibe as a couple.
Hampshire House Mother’s Day Brunch
This Mother’s Day, thank your mother for her unconditional love and support. Mothers are a special kind of person, so take some extra time to honor and celebrate your mother with a lovely brunch at Hampshire House.
Join us on Beacon Hill 11 a.m. – 3 p.m. on Sunday May 8th for a relaxing, enjoyable brunch. Bring the whole family and give special attention to your wonderful mother while you enjoy gourmet dishes. For $55 per person, you can enjoy a three course meal. Your choice of appetizer includes Sunday Lobster Bisque, Gulf Shrimp Martini, Grilled Asparagus & Portobello Mushrooms and more. Select your entrée from a selection including Smoked Salmon & Spinach Benedict, Grilled Beef Tenderloin Medallions, Stuffed French Toast, New England Lobster Omelet and more.
Please note, the ticket price does not include tax, gratuity or beverages. Perk up with a coffee or indulge in our delicious Bloody Marys. Validated parking is available in the Boston Common Garage for easy access to Hampshire House. To ensure your family has a table, call (617) 227-9600 to make a reservation.
2016 Spring Wedding Fashion Spotlight
Bridal fashion may seem far from our everyday fashion, but the latest runway looks from the top bridal designers show how trends in street fashion are influencing what you could be wearing down the aisle. Designers are demanding our attention this wedding season with their experimental looks and play on dimension. This year’s looks are all about volume, optical illusions and trendy details. We take you from runway to aisle with a closer look at this season’s wedding fashion trends.
This year’s bridal runways were overflowing with sheer silhouettes and elements to the gowns. Sheer fabrics are being used to create a more sensual look without being too overt. Illusion bodies and sheer shoulders show off more skin, and designers are using the ethereal fabric as overskirts for a flowing bottom with more volume. Designers like Monique Lhuillier, Oscar de la Renta, Theia and Vera Wang featured sheer fabrics in their lines for 2016.
The Front Cut Is the Deepest
Demure is done. Dramatic cuts are extra chic this season, carrying over to bridal fashion to stay on trend. We’re seeing a deep-V in the front as a way to show some skin without too much cleavage. Exposed backs are also giving brides the opportunity to surprise guests with a less expected — yet fabulously sexy — part of their bodies. Designers featuring these deep cuts include Marchesa, Monique Lhuillier, Badgley Mischka, Vera Wang, Carolina Herrera and Pamella Roland.
Crop Top Pop
Crop tops are no longer limited to the casual ensemble. Paired with high-waist skirts, a crop top is a fun, unique take on the traditional wedding gown. Grace Loves Lace, Houghton Bride, Elizabeth Stuart, Theia, Oscar de la Renta, Vera Wang and plenty of others are including this cut in their collections.
Whatever (Pant)Suits You
For some brides, the big, poufy, floor-length wedding gown doesn’t reflect their individual style. Designers are creating looks with the less traditional bride in mind. We’re seeing asymmetrical hemlines, knee-length and pantsuits. These looks are perfect for city hall weddings, more casual affairs, reception dresses and brides who break the mold in all the right ways. Check out Vera Wang, Pamella Roland, Houghton Bride, Theia, and Carolina Herrera for beautiful alternatives to the traditional gown.
Special 3D Effects
Floral appliques and accents are not new to bridal fashion, but designers are taking a new approach to adding these elements to their gowns. Three-dimensional flowers, feathers and lace are trending to create more volume and visual interest on gowns from Oscar de la Renta, Monique Lhuillier, Marchesa, Vera Wang, Badgley Mischka and others.
Beneath the Surface
Volume and dramatic skirts are dominating the bridal runways this year. We’re seeing designers play with layers of lace, organza and tulle to reach unforgettable dimensions. One of our favorite trends is the overlay skirt. A column dress is made voluminous by an overlaying skirt of a lighter fabric to turn this sleek silhouette into a voluminous princess cut. Carolina Herrera, Badgley Mischka and Monique Lhuillier are mixing other trends into this layering effect.
You deserve a wedding look as unique as you are. With adventurous cuts, materials and styles, designers are giving brides plenty of choices. Choose soft and romantic, modern and minimalist, sleek and sexy or vintage and rustic. Whatever your personal style may be, express yourself with the top looks from our favorite designers. Keep these trends in mind when you’re on the hunt for the perfect gown.
Hampshire House’s Swiss Social Soiree – Hampshire House
Everything’s coming up Swiss! Join us 6 p.m. – 9 p.m. Saturday, April 16th for our special event, the Swiss Social Soiree. Bring family, friends, acquaintances and whomever else you think would enjoy an evening of fun, fine food and conversation in our intimate Hampshire House setting.
At just $55 (including tax and gratuity), a ticket is just the beginning of an evening enjoying cocktails, wines, hors d’ oeuvres, rösti station and raclette table, prepared for you by our Swiss Corporate Chef Markus Ripperger. Take this opportunity to get a taste of the flavors and experiences Switzerland has to offer. Delicious food and drink pairs well with our Swiss/American trivia wheel, magic act and general fun and frivolity. Try your luck to wine any of our fabulous prizes. The evening promises to be a warm, unique experience, as is to be expected from Hampshire House.
This event will sell out quickly. Tickets are on a first come, first served basis, so order yours today to be a part of this marvelous event.
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